I wonder what people think when I go into the ladies restroom and don't come out for 20 minutes. Luckily, I'm not too concerned with what people think. I have found that the restroom in the top floor of the library is a pretty ok place to pump milk. I drag a chair into the huge handicapped stall and use an extension cord so that I can pump in comfort and discretion. And hardly anyone uses that bathroom so I don't usually have to worry about someone coming in and stinking up the place. And I keep hand sanitizer and disinfecting wipes in my bag with my pump so I can keep it as germ free as possible. Anyway, that's enough about that.
I've been mourning the loss of my self upkeep lately. Let's do a little before and after. This is me before moving to Texas, before kids, and before the 35 pounds I've gained since living in Texas. I used to style my hair and dye it fun colors and put on make-up. I also used to eat healthy and exercise. But I also didn't have two kids to look after.
And now for the after picture. Note the huge, baggy t-shirt, complete absence of make-up, and hair pulled back into some sort of a pony tail, and of course, the baby spit up on each shoulder. *sigh* The sacrifices we make to have children. Is it worth it? Yes. But that doesn't mean that I don't often think back to the times before my belly became littered with stretch marks and when I actually had the time and energy to style my hair and put on make-up. It's not like I have to look good for anyone, but it does help me feel better about myself. And I know I have a lot on my plate, so I shouldn't be worried about it. Obviously I'm not that worried about it because I haven't bothered to put forth any effort in fixing the situation. Anyway, I have to get to class. I'll try to do a little less self-absorbed post this weekend.
I've been mourning the loss of my self upkeep lately. Let's do a little before and after. This is me before moving to Texas, before kids, and before the 35 pounds I've gained since living in Texas. I used to style my hair and dye it fun colors and put on make-up. I also used to eat healthy and exercise. But I also didn't have two kids to look after.
And now for the after picture. Note the huge, baggy t-shirt, complete absence of make-up, and hair pulled back into some sort of a pony tail, and of course, the baby spit up on each shoulder. *sigh* The sacrifices we make to have children. Is it worth it? Yes. But that doesn't mean that I don't often think back to the times before my belly became littered with stretch marks and when I actually had the time and energy to style my hair and put on make-up. It's not like I have to look good for anyone, but it does help me feel better about myself. And I know I have a lot on my plate, so I shouldn't be worried about it. Obviously I'm not that worried about it because I haven't bothered to put forth any effort in fixing the situation. Anyway, I have to get to class. I'll try to do a little less self-absorbed post this weekend.
4 comments:
Ok. Here's the deal. You are STILL beautiful! The nasty grayish, white trash shirt has GOT to go! And you DO clean up very nicely thank you very much. I refer you to the family photo in the park. You are so much more than what a silly photo shows. I think you look fantastic for all the things you are trying to do solo.
It is never a good idea to take a picture at a low point. I seriously doubt you go to school with spit-up on your shoulders (not intentionally anyway). I think you look very healthy and beautiful in the 2nd picture (actually honestly prefer it to the first). The comment about not needing to wear make-up for anyone is SO not true. There is one very important person you need to do it for--YOU!! Make-up is over rated. I went through a phase where I didn't wear any for years. I do like to put on a bit now and recognize it does make a difference on how I feel about myself but it is still just a bit (powder, shadow & mascara). You have lovely skin and you don't need much!
Kelsey,
I just see the same beautiful face, only now there is more depth, due to your children and experiences. What mom or anyone doesn't have a day they look like that. I think having two little ones is such a big adjustment and adding school to that, I think you're doing awesome just to get it all done. I feel like I am really getting to know you through this blog and I personally really like the person you are.
Make-up is for suckas! I never wear it either and I don't have kids. Also doing hair sucks!! I rarely do mine and since it is short it sticks out everywhere. I agree with one of the other comments that you have great skin and can pull off the no makeup stuff well. I don't think you can compare these two photos anyway. The pictures of you right after having a baby and the new family ones are just as cute as this old one. I don't have kids but imagine it does leave you no time for yourself. If you think makeup will make YOU feel better wear it but please know you are really pretty and are one of the coolest people I have ever met.
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